I'm really having a hard time getting dressed for the day.

Objectives:
1. find satisfactory, multi-purpose day-to-evening outfit
2. get out the house
3. go surfing
4. shower at public restroom at the beach
5. go to werkplatz
6. go to Eileen and Sea Monkey's thing at Che Cafe
7. perhaps drink afterwords, or else run home to the couch

Subjectives:
1. I look like crap in all my clothes now
2. I don't think I'm ready for this jelly
3. despite all my best efforts, I see I've still internalized some misogynist bullshit. This is an obstacle to getting dressed
4. how many bags can I carry out to the van in one trip?
a. man purse
b. plastic bag for wetsuit
c. plastic bag for shampoo etc.
d. bag of work stuff